This guy is trying to get me to go to a hotel with him?

Tell a friend to call you about 5 minutes after you know your going to meet him, make sure your outside. This can be your emergency escapre route - If hes ugly or your instantly not feeling it - then when your friend calls you can bow out politly with a fake emergency. If hes not and your dyen to get to the room - answer your phone and tell your friend all is good thanks, then call her later with the details. Oh - and make sure the hotel is 30 miles away from your boyfriend/house/work.. 30 mile rule, keep it in check