Please help, i dont know if im infected with something ? Im only 16 :( !!?

Ok. So there is this thing that has been bothering my more than anything.. Its making me extremely depressed :'( about January 2010 i met this guy, we started talking and whatever & we ended up going out. I regret it so much but we had unprotected sex. At the time i didn't care but i recently found from someone i know he has a wart on his dick. I never once noticed it till i think about it. Ive read that people can be born with moles & stuff down there that seem like the same thing by feel. So im not sure wether its an actual wart or not. This is killing me cause im afraid im going to have warts or something and it really sucks cause im only 16.. Female by the way. Im too afraid to go to the doctor to get tested so i was looking for answers on here. just the other day ive noticed some blister looking thing on my inner thigh near my Vagina. I checked today not too long ago & they ( i think there was 2 ) were almost gone.. now they look like little pimples slowly going away. As far as i know i havent had anything on my Vagina or on the inner side on my lips and stuff but i do have little bumps all over the inside on my lips ( ive read that its normal and most woman have them) So i dont know what to think of it. Today i also noticed that i had little pimple type things that were tiny on the inner corner of my lips on my face kind of going allong my bottom lip. And my top & bottom lip seem to be kind of white onderneath the skin ( ive read that it can be normal for most people to have white on their lips).For my thigh ive only noticed this once before but it was kind of between my hip & thigh. What could it be ? Please help. Dont tell me to go to the doctor and get checked.. i know that. Please respect what im asking cause this is serious. Ive even contemplated suicide because of this cause im stuck with it if im infected. Im so depressed cause im pretty sure i have it :( i feel dirty, gross, not myself, im sick to my stomach and i dont feel normal anymore. Dont tell my to talk to someone either cause i would never open up to anyone i dont want too nor will anything be able to cha ge my state of mind unless its me finding out im clean. but anyways.. i straight up asked my ex if he had genital warts or anything he said no. If i do can i take legal action for him not telling me in the first place and having sex with me knowing he has it or for him lying to me when i asked him? also again after having sex with him i had sex with 2 other different people.. 1 was my ex who i was with for 9 months who was clean and someone else who was a virgin. they were atleast 4 months apart. since october going to november i have not had sex at all. Anyways i. omly 16, im scared that i have it.. i dont know what to do anymore.. When answering please respect what i say when i dont want answers saying "go to the doctor" or "look for help for the way you feel" please.. Id appreciate a good answer more than anything in the world... Thanks !! :(